Embracing Mortality: A Path to Self-Actualization

It can be easy to float through life avoiding our true potential, often afraid of pursuing what we really care about or defaulting to the path of least resistance. One of the most powerful tools for breaking out of this default cycle and living life fully is acknowledging—and even embracing—our mortality.

Facing Mortality

Let’s lay it out straight: you’re going to die. One day, you will cease to exist on this earth, and regardless of your spiritual beliefs, life as you know it will end. This single, finite chance is what gives value to the precious time you have. Every choice you make—big or small—can either align with your true values or not. These choices shape your life experience, making each decision significant.

Overcoming Inaction

Often, we default into inaction because it's the path of least resistance—no change, no external discomfort, and no one knows what we truly wanted. But inaction holds you back from breakthroughs, whether it’s pursuing a dream project, singing karaoke, investing in relationships, or any other endeavor that requires effort and discomfort but leads to growth.

Fear and the Path of Least Resistance

Why do we avoid living a fulfilling life? Two primary reasons often emerge: fear of pursuing—and failing at—what we truly care about, and defaulting to the path of least resistance. Don’t let the fear of failure steal your potential. This is something I’m continually working on myself. When faced with fear or hesitation, I remind myself of my mortality: "I’m going to die—soon—so there’s no point in wasting time if I actually care about this."

I'm not suggesting reckless leaps into unprepared situations, but rather, encouraging you to live a life that won't lead to regrets at the end of your lifelong story. Keeping the end in mind helps keep the present in perspective.

Living Authentically

We often live as if we're immortal, putting off our dreams for a future that feels perpetually out of reach—waiting until we’re "ready," or until we’ve accomplished enough in one area or feel comfortable in another. But you don’t have all of eternity to live the life you want. Your life is too precious to waste on the path of least resistance.

Comfort and security often come at the expense of new experiences that foster growth. Be aware if you’re comfortable but uninspired—comfort can be an insidious form of resistance against the life you truly want.

It’s Never Too Late to Pursue Your Dreams

If you feel like you haven't been living to your full potential, start now. The past is behind you; your future is determined by the choices you make moving forward. Pursue the life you want and see how this less-traveled, sometimes uncomfortable path makes you feel alive.

It takes courage to live according to your values and be true to yourself. Live courageously and authentically, and you will live a life meaningful to you. Pursue your dreams as a mortal would—because you are one.